Saturday, May 12, 2012

Used vs Loved

While a man was polishing his new car;
His 4 years old son picked up a stone and stratched lines on the side of the car.

In anger, the man took the child's hand and hit it many times not realizing he was using a wrench.

At the hospital, the child lost all his fingers due to multiple fractures.

When the child saw his father.. with painful eyes he asked,

"Dad, when will my fingers grow back?"

the man was so hurt and speechless..

he went back to his car and kicked it a lot of times.

Devastated by his own actions.. sitting in front of that car he looked at the scratches, the child was written

'LOVE YOU DAD'

The next day that man committed suicide...

p/s: Anger & love has no limits; choose the latter to have a beautiful, lovely life and remember this..

"Things are to be used and people are to be loved"

source : was taken from NSRM ( National Suicide Registry Malaysia ) Bulletin

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HADITH ON SUICIDE: WHOEVER KILLS HIMSELF WILL BE PUNISHED IN HELL WITH WHATEVER HE USED TO KILL HIMSELF



Abu Huraira reported: The Messenger of Allah, peace be upon him, said, “Whoever kills himself with iron then his iron will be in his hand, thrusting it into his stomach in the fire of Hell abiding therein eternally; and whoever drinks poison and kills himself will drink it in the fire of Hell abiding therein eternally; and whoever threw himself off a mountain and killed himself will be thrown into the fire of Hell abiding therein eternally.”
[Sahih Muslim, Book 1, Number 199]

عَنْ أَبِي هُرَيْرَةَ قَالَ  قَالَ رَسُولُ اللَّهِ صَلَّى اللَّهُ عَلَيْهِ وَسَلَّمَ مَنْ قَتَلَ نَفْسَهُ بِحَدِيدَةٍ فَحَدِيدَتُهُ فِي يَدِهِ يَتَوَجَّأُ بِهَا فِي بَطْنِهِ فِي نَارِ جَهَنَّمَ خَالِدًا مُخَلَّدًا فِيهَا أَبَدًا وَمَنْ شَرِبَ سَمًّا فَقَتَلَ نَفْسَهُ فَهُوَ يَتَحَسَّاهُ فِي نَارِ جَهَنَّمَ خَالِدًا مُخَلَّدًا فِيهَا أَبَدًا وَمَنْ تَرَدَّى مِنْ جَبَلٍ فَقَتَلَ نَفْسَهُ فَهُوَ يَتَرَدَّى فِي نَارِ جَهَنَّمَ خَالِدًا مُخَلَّدًا فِيهَا أَبَدًا
صحيح مسلم كتاب الإيمان باب تحريم قتل الإنسان نفسه وأن من قتل نفسه بشيء يعذب به وأنه لا يدخل الجنة إلا مسلم

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1 comment:

Nurrul said...

love cannot taken for granted..
Used to think wisely before regret what u have done :D